Not sure about the feeder aspect of your situation but finding a partner would be like finding any partner I would think.
Being in the right place at the right time and finding the right person has a lot to do with it.
Essentially something that just happens on it own.
Of course you have to put yourself out there so you will be seen by others.
Some girls gravitate towards heavy guys and some don't.
I wouldn't worry too much really all my relationships have happened naturally .
5 years
